Sex Toys Invented by our Kinky Imagination – Part 2

The very article is proposed by www.desiresecrets.com – a virtual sex toys store where you can find a large assortment of vibrators, phallus-shaped devices and other adult sex toys for two somes to generously explore and try out during their sex sessionsю Moreover, here you are given the chance to find reliable tips and more information related to sex toys.

As you’ve noticed homemade sex toys don’t cost a treasure and are perfect for creative individuals to spice up their sex life. Nevertheless, everything is not so magnificent as it might seem at first. Prior to reveling in an enjoyable jerking-off session you should thoroughly think over certain consequences and risks. Which are they?

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Health risks

  • Allergy
    For sure you are acquainted that most fruits and vegetables available on the market include many chemicals and pesticides. While eating them we do hurt to our bodies say nothing of our genitals while using them as homemade sex toys. These “adult devices” can cause allergy. In order to avoid this problem, you are recommended to thoroughly clean them before use and use condoms on them.
  • Urinary tract infection
    Always clean the toys you’ve made by and for yourself only! Never insert anything that could irritate the urethra! Make sure your masterpieces are clean enough. However, you’d better “embellish” them with condoms.
  • Stuffs lost in the Bermuda Triangle
    That’s not a myth! You have no idea how many objects were and are still found in human beings’ bodies. For many reasons ingenious individuals do not suppose that an ordinary banana or sausage can break in two. They can not accept the idea that every object that isn’t endowed with a handle can be lost and comfortably lodge in one’s rectum. So, make sure the homemade sex toys you are going to use are easy to insert and retrieve from the tight opening.
  • Neglect eccentric homemade objects!
    Never use sharp devices for experiencing extra sensations and more incredible intimate moments! They may cause sores, wounds, rashes and injuries to your inner openings.

Why manufactured sex toys are better than homemade?

Manufactured sex toys are better than homemade

It is all about their purpose. Manufactured sex toys are specifically meant to stimulate one’s hot spots and are safe for use. They are made out of special materials aimed to not irritate one’s sensuous skin. Sex toys have a shape that perfectly fit one’s body. One can not lose an anal wand or butt plug in the rectum as these may depict specific handles, flared base or retrieval rings for extra safety and comfy use.

When talking about sex toys it should be mentioned that not all manufactured erotic accessories are expansive and cost a treasure. Sex shops offer adult devices for all people. When entering a sex toys store you will find various prices, starting with 5 to thousands of dollars, depending on your income and the sum of money you are willing to spend on a sex toy. There are adult toys that cost a little but impress with their superior quality. In a nutshell sex toys are available for everyone!
Don’t hesitate to make your life more enjoyable, healthy and safe with real sex toys! Totally dedicated to your genitals!

How to introduce sex toys into your relationship

If you have decided to use sex toys in your relationship, and your decision is firm, then nothing should deter you from going ahead. You will need the right approach to begin, but when you do, it will give you exhilaration like nothing else. Sex toys can bring fun into your sex life, and any sex expert will tell you that a light, romantic relationship is the best stimulant for good sex.

If you are stuck at how to bring those sex toys into your bedroom and use them, here are some tips:

  1. Do not rush in. Your sex toy is going to be a tool of enjoyment for both of you. Do not make haste, or nothing will be gained by both. You must realize that introducing any external factor in your sex life – even if it is just a nonliving sex tool – may be challenging. Get started with something innocuous like lotions and oils. It is better to start with something that is not exactly a tool. But these oils and lotions can definitely improve your sexual bearings with each other. And they will pave the way from bringing in more tools in the future.
  2. Build up a foundation. If you make some preparations for your sexual encounters, then you will surely find a more enriching experience ahead. Now you must bring in a real sex toy into the relationship, since the comfort levels between the two of you have improved. However, refrain from getting something drastic at the onset. Stick to simple and gentle tools which will be acceptable and safe to both. You partner should not be intimidated by what you are bringing into the bedroom, but must be able to enjoy with it. Get something simple like ticklers. These are simple toys that are perfectly safe, and at the same time add to the excitement in the bedroom.
  3. The third most important thing you ought to remember is that you must not become an addict of the sex toy. Your sex toy is an external part of your sex, do not make it the third person. Do not overtly rely on this tool. Even when you are using a sex toy, try to discover new ways of making each other happy without it.

Sex toys are not called intimacy tools for no reason. They are like bridges to repairing a fading relationship. They can give you sexual satisfaction and at the same time build comfortable intimacy levels between you.

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DDLG Advice Column: Sub Trouble (Episode 2)

Episode 2: Sub Trouble

In DADDY ISSUES, we sort out your kink questions.

We’ve still been collecting your questions from the email list, and we’re sending the best ones to the experts to get answered.

One question that seems to come up a LOT is about getting your dom to take it seriously.

Many people seem to have doms/daddies who can be a little lenient, or are worried about causing harm to their little.

That’s totally normal–and in fact is a sign of a good, caring relationship.

However, it can lead to problems if you’re not getting what you need out of the dynamic.

Fear not…Lady Promethea’s here to help!

Dear Lady Promethea,

If your dom or daddy is rather goofy or very lenient, how can you get them to be more dominant and stick by the rules that you create together?

Thanks,

Bratty in Bentonville

 


Dear Bratty in Bentonville,

Being A Brat

If your name is any indication of your submissive style – you likely try to brat in order to receive the funishment (or punishment if breaking a serious rule) you want – and if I am to make another educated guess from your inquiry – you are just not receiving the expected response to your provided stimulus.

Normally if a dominant is not fulfilling their side of the agreement, it could be one of three main reasons – he is not yet firm in his own style of domination, he has forgotten the rules, or he does not feel comfortable with them.

The easy answer to all three, and to your question, is to communicate your concerns openly and honestly.  

Candid Chat

Do not spring the conversation on him.  

Tell him you would like to set aside some time to discuss your dynamic, specifically the rules and the punishments associated with breaking them.

During the in between time (or even before you set the time) it is a good practice to know exactly what it is that you feel is lacking – is he not enforcing the rules consistently?  

Or not at all?

Are there specific rules he seems more keen on sticking to?

How often does he actually take the rules to heart?

Back To The Rulebook

And also review the rules themselves – do they seem lax or unimportant or even insignificant?  If so that may be urging him to be lenient because he may think them to be silly.

When you do sit down to talk to him, ask him what he thinks of the rules, the punishments.

Ask him how he feels when you are good, and when you go against the rules that are set out.

Ask him if he wants anything to change about them.  Discuss how it makes you feel about yourself, your dynamic, and him when he does not follow through.

Usually candid and thorough discussion will bring out the answers you seek and then you can discuss how to proceed in the future!

Let me know how it goes, Bratty.

I remain,

Lady Promethea